《育兒分享 -以下純個人感受》
有好多媽媽朋友都會問我迪士尼美語世界嘅教材(下稱 “DWE”)好唔好?有冇用?點解咁咁多間(oxford path, food超人, dr max , playtime in english etc)唔揀會揀DWE?
不如我喺度一次過答晒大家啦😂利申:無收廣告費,純分享💕
首先如果大家想體驗下DWE,可以喺👇🏻link拎體驗版:
http://www.worldfamily.com.hk/ffp/sl/rm1809?m=H045367
1)點解會揀DWE?
其實喺我大肚嘅時候已經上過DWE office了解過,當時遇到嘅consultant 比較hard sell,成件事變得好商業。而我又未有意識到胎教嘅重要。純粹覺得d教材幾靚喎,但費錢好貴,就冇左回事。
直至2018年8月bb展 (bb豬當時5個月),老公突然喺會場話想了解下d教材(呢樣值得加許👍🏻)。咁我地就去左oxford path,因為我本身個人黎講想bb豬英式英文(純個人喜好),但op唔係唔好(我係深信每套教材都有佢優/缺點),而家感覺有d悶,我驚bb唔鐘意睇書同自己冇恆心去用。我老公嗰刻已經好想俾錢,但我堅持想老公compare多間先決定,咁我地就去左dwe嘅counter,遇上我而家嘅consultant ,可能真係人夾人緣,佢比我感覺好專業,唔係淨係sell教材,佢都會比好多心得我育兒方面,細問下原來佢做左教育好多年。
而老公了解完之後發現佢唔只有story book同點讀筆、CD and Dvd...佢教材仲有talking cards,玩具等等)同埋最吸引我地就係其他配套(consultant跟進、家長/工人姐姐嘅課堂教我地用教材、節日活動、電話美語(有外國人美語哥哥姐姐同bb傾電話)、facetime同考核嘅進度.....當然最重要嘅佢playgroup &課堂)所以老公就決定左買了,而我地一家就踏上dwe family之路....
2)重點.....有冇用?
對於我黎講,絕對有。好多朋友問bb豬點解咁早識wave hello & goodbye ,clap hands, kiss...咁當然我同老公同姐姐喺日間係同佢講英文,係有幫助啦,但其實係因為我地會non stop播住d 歌,故事嘅cd做background music,所以日日聽之下,bb豬學command係的確幾快。而早兩個月前consultant黎探bb睇下佢進度,拎住唔同嘅動物卡,問which one is cat? Which one is duck? Which one is dog?我心諗佢識鬼咩😌但bb豬5題入面都岩四題,我覺得超amazing成件事。
當然,我都有朋友覺得成套係冇用,因為佢地本身媽媽爸爸同係native in english, 爸爸媽媽d英文都好好聽,但我同爸爸都係香港讀大學,自問講英文就算溝通得流利,但發音就好港式、而姐姐嘅英文就係菲style😂所以我地想bb豬可以實行廣東話同英文都係母語,最好靠佢喺6個月之前不停input正式嘅美語入腦,令佢腦到發展到嘅network,雙語bb就是這樣練成的。 (呢個concept係從一本書叫「在「客廳」培育出雙語兒童:八大法則,讓你的孩子英文一級棒」度睇番黎)
仲有當bb大d就可以俾佢睇dvd,我覺得對佢第日n班interview都有幫助。
而我而家都盡量做到每星期都返一至兩次disney 嘅playgroup,因為我想bb豬冇咁細膽,佢以前好驚陌生環境同陌生人,呢層我地努力學習中...亦好開心見到bb豬有進步 (爸爸媽媽proud of you),不過遲d我都會安排bb豬上其他學校嘅playgroup,兩邊一齊上就會比較完善啦。
3)我用嘅係邊set?
我係買full set - Disney Learning System + Let’s play set (price around HKD61xxx),但老實講bb豬仲細,我係好多野都未用得到住。所以大家可以考慮買Mickey Set (price around HKD45xxx) or Pooh set (price around HKD28xxx)。
4)買二手好唔好?
我其實唔鼓勵買二手呀,因為二手用家冇會藉join唔到佢地嘅活動、playgroup同電話美語,又冇consultant follow up,呢d其實我覺得都係佢咁貴之處。
仲有bb會鐘意咬書、食書同摵書,有membership就可以將爛左嘅書換番新👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
5)有冇疑惑/缺點?
正如文章開頭咁講,每樣教材都有好同唔好之處。因為好多研究都講過bb兩歲之前係唔好睇電視,一來壞眼,二來令佢變蠢....但確實play along 嘅dvd係可以用好快嘅時間教到bb好多動作、指令、同事物。所以而家我都仲拿捏緊balance個時間。同bb豬一齊學習中💪🏻
6)有冇逼bb 豬睇書同用教材?
絕對冇....雖然我知道有一部分人覺得我好怪獸,但我冇逼佢,佢可能睇五分鐘去玩第二樣野,我會由得佢。因為成套教材係好開心嘅,我係想佢enjoy,所以bb一冇耐性就唔應該繼續啦。相反,我覺得自己好懶,因為其實主要都係姐姐同佢睇,所以我覺得bbju用嘅時間係真係唔夠多。
7)最後,consultant比我嘅小tips:
Consultant叫我地唔好成日考bb,因為考得太多佢叫唔答架啦。
仲有consultant留意到我喺屋企同佢講英文比較多,佢remind我已經有姐姐同佢講英文再加個教材,所以爸爸媽媽盡量同佢講番廣東話,in case佢第日interview時要講中文,佢唔識聽就唔好。而的確bb豬有時同一樣野,佢聽英文係比到反應,但廣東話就唔知你講乜咁。
但我發現.....其實我冇俾過bb ju接觸普通話....係時候要研究下追番進度。
多謝大家睇左咁多字,如果大家想要consultant介紹可以pm/ wtsapp我,我唔喺度公開啦。但記得搵岩consultant係一件好重要嘅事,大家都要搵個同自己夾嘅先會事半功倍💕希望呢篇文會幫到大家,祝大家都決定到邊款教材先最岩自己小朋友❤️
如果大家都有其他問題都可以pm我😘😘😘另外求普通話教材推介🙏
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IVF Journey, A Husband’s Perspective
Hi all, before reading further I would like to say this is NOT an instruction or tips for IVF and hopefully readers will understand my poorly written English. This is my journey as a father of the IVF baby girl. Why am I sharing all this? It is because my wife had a Facebook page of her IVF journey at https://facebook.com/ivfjourney2015/ and she told me that majorities (not all but most) feedback indicate husband not supportive enough to commit into a journey of IVF. I’m not a true supportive husband either, least I made up my mind to make it happen.
Let’s start with “Why IVF?”
We went for a fertilization test and results with;
Husband: Teratospermia (Human language, sperm is weak for fertilization process)
Wife: Unexplained infertility (I think this is easy to understand, there is for the confirming reason for this result and we don’t go for further test after it because it will consumes too much time and money)
We married and planned to have children late 2011, both our ages were 37 in 2015 because of late marriage. My wife introduced IVF because she does not want to give up and feels regretful in future and so do I. Maybe because I did too many regretful things in the past, now I do not want this happened to my wife. At least I do it better then ignoring it.
Preparation for IVF
Financially, I know it will involve amount of 20k – 30k “Ringgit Malaysia” in the whole process depending on the situation and this is only one chance for me. I don’t have the money for a second attempt because I need to allocate funds for delivery if success.
Mentally, I do some studies/research on IVF. The whole journey took 50 days and in one of the process my wife needs to do a self-injection daily. I quickly asked my wife “Daily injection?! Do I need to fetch you to clinic daily to do this?” She answered “No, we need to do this ourselves”. A final question from me going to be “How?!” After we sat down and discuss, we comes into conclusion and I will do the injection for her. This was the most painful and nervous moment I ever experience by poking a needle to my wife’s belly EVERYDAY!
Lifestyle, 6 months earlier. My wife told me the NO’s, NO alcohol NO smoking NO midnight wandering NO stress. I said, I will fly up to the skies like butterfly if I able to do all the NO’s. It’s like a mission impossible. How can a man like me not go out to social with friends without alcohol and smoke? The joke was sleeping early! You want me to social with my friends in breakfast or lunch time? At this time, she softly said “I really wants to have a cute baby in future, it looks more like a family. Furthermore, I don’t want to have regretful moments in future”. All these words came out of my love (wife), her words melted in my heart deeply. I told her “Ok, we will go for it BUT you will need to promise me ONE IMPORTANT thing. No matter the process success or not we only have one attempt we need to accept the truth and live happily without regret in future.” she agreed.
Commitment, this is not some empty promise. I made a huge commitment to change my lifestyle into zero alcohol, tobacco and lesser stress. If comparing the pain and suffers my wife will take in this journey e.g., injection, medication effects, hormone changes and all the effects from pregnancies to delivery, mine looks more alike small potatoes (looks much more simple). Trust me guys, don't compare it, if you do and more likely you're going loose badly. For the sake of making a better future, I had fulfilled this commitment.
IVF Journey Phase 1 “Unskilled Husband Injection”
Day 1, doctor consults us for Buserelin injection. I need to inject this medication into my wife's belly each day sharp at 8AM. The nurse had guided me side by side to do the first injection.
Day 2, I started my first injection to my wife's belly without anyone guiding beside. Feels a bit nervous because this time I'm doing it all by myself. I try to hum some music to distract my wife's from looking at the needle while injecting but still she is looking at it.
Day 3 - Day 15, sometime the injection hurting and causes bleeding/bruise to her. I need to find a new spot to inject every time and sees her bruise makes my pain in the heart too. My injection skills improved dramatically. She even told me that she doesn't feel pain like the beginning stages.
Day 16, follow up 2nd checkup. Doctor said, everything goes smoothly and added another medication to inject called Gonal-F to take home and start injecting on day 23. This message never surprises me because I've been told earlier, but just that the price to pay for this medication is quite costly.
Day 17 - Day 22, nothing much on these days and we just stick on the plan as usual.
IVF Journey Phase 2 “Stressful Night”
Day 23, Gonal F injections start today. This needle doesn't look same as those earlier, it comes with medication in it and look like a pen.
Day 24 - Day 26, side effects of the Gonal F medications started. My wife is feeling irritation at the injection site, fullness, bloating and tenderness in the lower abdomen due to the increasing size of the ovaries. Her mood changes dramatically as I can tell, but she endures it and tell me she can handle it.
Day 27, follow up 3rd checkup. Doctor said wife has eggs total of 12 and is ready for Transvaginal oocyte retrieval "Human language, Egg retrieval" at day 31.
Day 28 - Day 29, final injection of Gonal F. At day 29 night, I inject Ovidrel to wife belly to that causes the growth and release of a mature egg (ovulation) for day 31.
Day 30, resting whole day. Finally, we had a day without injection and worrying about holding any needles. Today we wondering about the egg growth, not knowing will the eggs grow more or still the same amount of 12.
Day 31, egg retrieval. 8 egg success retrieves and I give out my sperm for oocytes selection on the same day. Wife given cyclogest for oval protection after the egg retrieval.
IVF Journey Phase 3 “Hopeful Embryo Culture & Embryo Transfer”
Day 32 - Day 35, rest at home. We had pillow talk every night concerning about the growth of an embryo. We also look at sample growth stages of an embryo from the web to see what the current growth stage is.
Day 36, another hopeful and nervous morning. Doctor tells us the result of embryo culture as below;
Total Embryo Retrieve: 8
Embryo Qualified for ICSI: 6
Embryo Success until Cleavage Stage (Day 2 – Day 4): 3
Embryo Success until Blastocyst Stage (Day 5): 2
Embryo Qualified / Recommended for Transfer: 1
Both our eyes looked at each other, knowing only 1 Blastocyst Embryo available to transfer and doctor tell the same after it. I really do not know how to express both our feelings into words here, as we expected to have at least 2 Blastocyst out of 8 embryos and only left 1. We both agreed to proceed this only 1 Blastocyst transfer as this is the only choice we had. It's more likely walking on a 100ft tall string with no supports mission, a single error will fail the mission.
After the transfer process, wife given a room to rest for few hours. A nurse came and give us adjunctive medications, injections and advice while resting at room.
IVF Journey Phase 4 “The Final Moment of IVF”
Day 37 - Day 49, after the transfer. This period is known as 2WW (2 Weeks Wait) with adjunctive medications, injections and be very careful. I just let her sleep/rest more on the bed, I served her every meal in the room. We're also nervous and curious about pregnancy results on day 44, we tested with cheap pregnancy tester and get got a double line on it and we do have a little hope and joy with this result. On day 47, again we test, but this time with expensive pregnancy tester and the results double line again! We're so hopeful and happy at this moment. We really hope this result is true until the next checkup.
Day 50, final checkup. My wife goes for the hCG test by giving a sample of blood, we waited 2 hours for the results. While waiting, nurse guide us to a room to rest. Wife slept and I sat beside concerned on the hCG test results. 2 hours later, the doctor invited us to look for him. Before doctor speaks, while we are sitting down, my wife's eyes were starring in the hCG results number and she spotted the hCG number is 452. She smiles happily while doctor tells her "You are pregnant and congratulations! Come back after 2 weeks to scan for baby heartbeats. And please go out to the counter and ring the bell!”
Just Sharing My Thoughts
By all means, I’m not bragging about my success. I would like to say if anyone is planning on IVF, teamwork is very important and husband play a very important role to increase the success rate. Sometimes, I do feel like a spectator than a participant myself because I never experience any of the medical exams but this is not true. Every injection I put on her belly, I feel the pain in my heart as bad as she has on the belly. Ok, nothing much to share in this IVF journey and next time I might be sharing another journey as a Father! Here is my little baby girl Facebook page奥莉 Olivia Baby - 梁童心心 https://fb.me/oliviababylove if you wish to see her growth updates.
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